Exuding positive energy

[IlvC0h3reNt]

I have a friend (my roommate infact) who I've noticed has an energy that is good to be around. We're both spiritual people (at least we try to be), but I find myself more optimisitic, confident, and all around healthier energetically while he is around.

See, I always thought I had positive energy, but recently I've noticed that I have a sort of intimidating energy around others, which makes sense since developing a strong will power has been a main area for me. And when I am around my friend, I feel a bit lacking.

Anyways, I was wondering if anyone has advice or techniques that would transform/develop my energy into a more positive one. I would be tremendously grateful.

[JoSac]

Im not sure but what i'd do is just sit and breath.

Pretend you are breathing in deep breaths of positive energy. Im think of this now and idk y but i see them as being purple. Imagine little balls with the + sing on them (for positive). And breathing out negative nergies (color black).

JS

[IlvC0h3reNt]

Im not sure but what i'd do is just sit and breath.

Pretend you are breathing in deep breaths of positive energy. Im think of this now and idk y but i see them as being purple. Imagine little balls with the + sing on them (for positive). And breathing out negative nergies (color black).

JS
Ah, I usually gather energy into the naval, do the full body curcuit, and the move energy from naval to crown while synchronizing with breathing, so I'll try the additional visualiztion with it as well.

I've thinking, however, that it has a lot to do with beliefs about people and their intents. I'm working with a few NLP books and techniques to help change such limiting beliefs.

[JoSac]

Well u could do it as a seperate exercise. Also to affirmations like "I take in positive energy". This will help get your higherself engaged. It engages in wat ever your mind is on.

And always use the NOW tense.

JS

[boris]

viewtopic.php?f=36&t=5352 (http://forums.astraldynamics.com/viewtopic.php?f=36&t=5352)

here's rayson's technique for connecting with your higher self, its very good.

[Caelrie]

Be careful with this, ok? The combination of a strong-willed energy with positive "feel good" energy creates a situation you unconsciously abuse. It creates a feeling of automatic trust towards you in the people around you. It makes your suggestions to them have more weight than they should, and leads to you unduly influencing them.

I lived in that situation for years. I didn't even know I was doing it, but people just seemed to usually do what I told them to do. I finally managed to turn off the subliminal suggestion part of it (people still trust me within seconds of meeting me, whether it's warranted or not), but even so I'd dragged people off their life's paths to follow mine so many times it made me sad.

Get your willful projection under control before you work on exuding this positive energy into others.

[Tom]

The trilogy of books by James Redfield (http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_b/102-9673114-1472946?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=james+redfield) starting with Celestine Prophecy, the (Paperback) (http://www.amazon.com/Celestine-Prophecy-James-Redfield/dp/0553409026/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201645734&sr=8-2) then The Tenth Insight: Holding the Vision (Celestine Prophecy) (Paperback) (http://www.amazon.com/Tenth-Insight-Holding-Celestine-Prophecy/dp/0446674575/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201645812&sr=1-1) and ending with The Secret of Shambhala: In Search of the Eleventh Insight (Paperback) (http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Shambhala-Search-Eleventh-Insight/dp/0446676489/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201645925&sr=1-1) is about filling yourself with energy and using that energy to make progress by drawing the lessons you need to yourself. The trilogy emphasizes that all your lessons come directly or indirectly through other people and the best way to help yourself is to use your energy to uplift the people around you. It isn't about controlling the people around you so much as giving them the resources they need to make better decisions and to respond more correctly to their situation.

[JoSac]

Seems interesting im putting them on my book list

JS

[IlvC0h3reNt]

Be careful with this, ok? The combination of a strong-willed energy with positive "feel good" energy creates a situation you unconsciously abuse. It creates a feeling of automatic trust towards you in the people around you. It makes your suggestions to them have more weight than they should, and leads to you unduly influencing them.

I lived in that situation for years. I didn't even know I was doing it, but people just seemed to usually do what I told them to do. I finally managed to turn off the subliminal suggestion part of it (people still trust me within seconds of meeting me, whether it's warranted or not), but even so I'd dragged people off their life's paths to follow mine so many times it made me sad.

Get your willful projection under control before you work on exuding this positive energy into others.

I will continue to monitor myself as best I can. I see what you're saying, and it is funny in a way since for a few years now I've had a feeling like I was going to lead something important. I assume everyone has this feeling from time to time; an intense longing for one's direction which inevitably lead's to one's fullest potential. At this point in my life I have the somewhat naive desire to lead a generation of people into a new paradigm of excellence. It's actually why I moved from Ontario to British Columbia by myself (first time leaving home and the province)...but I feel terribly hindered by my continuous cycle of negativity. I would, in a heart-beat, trade in my intimidating energy for a sustainable, consistent, spiritual/loving energy.


The trilogy of books by James Redfield (http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_b/102-9673114-1472946?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=james+redfield) starting with Celestine Prophecy, the (Paperback) (http://www.amazon.com/Celestine-Prophecy-James-Redfield/dp/0553409026/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201645734&sr=8-2) then The Tenth Insight: Holding the Vision (Celestine Prophecy) (Paperback) (http://www.amazon.com/Tenth-Insight-Holding-Celestine-Prophecy/dp/0446674575/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201645812&sr=1-1) and ending with The Secret of Shambhala: In Search of the Eleventh Insight (Paperback) (http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Shambhala-Search-Eleventh-Insight/dp/0446676489/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1201645925&sr=1-1) is about filling yourself with energy and using that energy to make progress by drawing the lessons you need to yourself. The trilogy emphasizes that all your lessons come directly or indirectly through other people and the best way to help yourself is to use your energy to uplift the people around you. It isn't about controlling the people around you so much as giving them the resources they need to make better decisions and to respond more correctly to their situation.

I've seen the movie, The Celestine Prophecy..excellent film I do concede.

And about using energy to uplift people..that's exactly what I want. I want to bring out the best in others when they're around me rather than see their flaws and negatively over-think their intents.

The zeal on this is heavy...but to feel the same as if i could walk down the sidewalk in the autumn, and have plants, flowers, grass, etc. bloom to their potential as I stroll by.(daydreams :roll: )

[Tom]

The short version is that every morning you set your intent that your aura will meet people before you get to them and that your energy will serve their highest purpose. For most people that means slowing them down so that they actually are present in the current moment. It means taking them out of the momentum of the rat race.

[star]

I have an intrinsic value that helps me keep my energy positive, but the one thing that always increases the happiness factor is higher self energy, regardless.

[IlvC0h3reNt]

Higher self energy? Is that energy from the Higherself? If so, how do attain energy from my Higherself?

[star]

Go through your crown and find him. Holding awareness inside it is enough. Experiment once your there to get more, or just ask. Otherwise you'll know when you have enough when you just can't stop laughing and your rolling around the floor bumping into things.

[IlvC0h3reNt]

I tried this today during meditation. I focused my awareness to top center of my head and held it there for a while. I felt sensations in the area, and often around the area (I think because my awareness would drift every so often). Didn't really know what to do at that point..but I am going to continue to activate this chakra and see how it goes. I've been working on the heart quite a bit lately, and have been working on the sub-navel (NEWv2 full body circuit exercise) for quite a while on skytrains and bus rides. That's my plan so far, focus on heart and crown chakras, reprogram negative beliefs about people, and searching for an individual's strengths upon meeting them.

[Korpo]

"Skytrains"? :shock: Canada - land of the future!

*wonders how they make the engine fly *

;) :lol:

Okay, what is a sky train?

Oliver

[Puck]

Positive energy can mean alot of things.

I personally believe that the thoughts we have generate the feelings that we have.

The feelings we have are energy.

Thoughts about things and people that you really like generate positive energy.

Our thoughts and therefore the energy they generate influence the people around us in a 30 foot radius.

If you want more information this, do a google search for CW leadbeater.

He talks about telepathy and the influence we have on each other all the time, whether we realize it or not.

For more on developing your positive energy and therefore your sex appeal and animal magnetism, check out Donna eden's material, which teaches you how to activate the various energy systems in the body for healing and vitality.

The stuff works and when you combine it with NEW ways, the magic begins:) Trust me on this:)

The Puck

[IlvC0h3reNt]

The skytrain is basically like a subway but it goes above ground level as well to all the major spots in the city.

Anyways, Puck,

Over the past year or so I've been realizing that stuff. The telepathy especially was one of the worst discoveries I made, and it still leaves me with another factor for social anxiety (which fuels messages I unfortunately believe). The only benefit I have with being able to think with another person's mind is dramatically outweighed by it's torturous woes.

I will, however, take a look at Donna Eden's material.

[Puck]

Hey Bro,

Please do take a look, because the information is incredible and it's helped in my personal life immensely. About 3 years ago, i happened across the information and i use it religiously. I was really sensitive to people's thoughts and feelings. The i learned that there is protection, simple protection which requires no visualization.

Here's a website that gives you the information free, so you can go ahead and protect yourself, since you sound like you're having the same problems i was having:

[link removed by admin- please read forum rules-ps. it's an EFT website]

Click on the energy link and look for the article that tells you how to protect your energies.

Good luck Bro,

The Puck