sanatogen
16th August 2013, 01:42 PM
Hey there,
I am looking for views on how to heal (or shift) the focus of a heart. A friendship that I had became love, and the other person at various times over the past year thought that she too felt this, but each time has let it go. Obviously this has been confusing, and frustrating but at last it has been solved.
Based on previous experience I'd rather not go through the next 2 years gradually letting go, particularly as we work for the same company. The other obvious way is to engage in social activies such as dancing and yoga/spiritual classes to move my focus away.
I'm wondering if there's a quicker way to loosen this love tie. I believe on what some people have said about "healing can be instantaneous". I wonder if there are techniques to quicken the pace of my loosening of the heart tie (as I call it)
Any thoughts welcome! :)
I am looking for views on how to heal (or shift) the focus of a heart. A friendship that I had became love, and the other person at various times over the past year thought that she too felt this, but each time has let it go. Obviously this has been confusing, and frustrating but at last it has been solved.
Based on previous experience I'd rather not go through the next 2 years gradually letting go, particularly as we work for the same company. The other obvious way is to engage in social activies such as dancing and yoga/spiritual classes to move my focus away.
I'm wondering if there's a quicker way to loosen this love tie. I believe on what some people have said about "healing can be instantaneous". I wonder if there are techniques to quicken the pace of my loosening of the heart tie (as I call it)
Any thoughts welcome! :)